leading in the midst of dissension

Hatred stirs up dissension, but love covers over all wrongs.
(Proverbs 10:12, NIV)

No leader likes dissension: we tend to take it personally (sometimes it is!). Additionally: it keeps us from moving forward and doing what we’re called to do. We are all different, so disagreements will occur. We are all broken, therefore the tipping point will come: division will bloom into dissension.

How should we lead when disagreement escalates to dissension?

I think we ought to start slowly. Personally, I’m quick to respond and too often it’s an over reaction…so maybe there are only a few of us need to commit to a slow start.

Greater care is needed: we must respond to something beyond the dissension, it is only an act standing in front of an attitude. Hate is a strong word, but it’s usually the source behind divisive actions. Dissension is a shadow cast by hate. Underneath hate is a hurt, a terribly wounded heart that hasn’t found healing.

Leaders who handle only the dissenting actions while ignoring the heart issues are either ignorant or weak. There is no shame in ignorance, we all have so much to learn! The weak are insecure in their leadership and fear personal challenge and appearing out of control.

Behind the dissension is hatred, and beneath the hate is a hurt. As followers of Jesus, isn’t it better that we care for the hurt rather than crushing the dissension?

In this, we respond to dissension with love, and cover up a wrong rather than making it worse. Dissension must be handled, but let’s do so with discernment rather than swift “justice.”

 

Of course, there’s a flip side:
>Is there any place where you are causing the division?
>>What is the thing you hate?
>>>Where have you been hurt?
>>>>Is there a better way to find healing?

 

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Logos 4 >>> learning the new application

I’m loving the newest version of LOGOS … the UI was odd at first, but really easy to use. Not a big learning curve even though it’s radically different from the previous versions. Very flexible. It doesn’t export the notes (or “clippings”) at all, which is a total drag. the work below would take 10 different “cuts” and “pastes” into a Word document… this should be changing soon . . .

Are you using the new logos? What Bible study software do you use?

 

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LEADERSHIP KILLERS >>>> SUMMARY

I’ve finished my little series on leadership killers, it was SLOW WORK. I didn’t think it would take this long to consider and shape these convictions. I’m going to clean them up a little bit more and put them into a devotional/journal and make this tool available (for free) on this site. I’d love your feedback and would appreciate it if you let me know how they could be better. I hope they’ve been good for you! If you know someone who’d be encouraged by these posts, send them along.

 

Killers, part 1 >>> Fear and Insecurity
Killers, part 2 >>> Zeal and Apathy
Killers, part 3 >>> History and Territory
Killers, part 4 >>> Arrogance and Incompetence
Killers, part 5 >>> Indulgence and Impurity

 

 

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LEADERSHIP KILLERS>>>>indulgence and impurity >>>>interrupt your influence

Indulgence and Impurity.
These killers are a failure of the holiness test: God calls us to be separate from the world, different, like God. we can’t be a catalyst if we’re not different.

Indulgence says, “I MUST have it” and kills a leader’s restraint and contentment. Everyone is born selfish, this is the essence of our brokenness. It is through self-control that we rise above consumption and possession and make new discoveries about God, ourselves, and the world. Maturity says, “Lord, I am not enough, but you are. I can be content in you.” Indulgence crouches at the door, ready to strike, to pull us back into the pit of blindness that comes from constant satisfaction. In this, God’s power and our responsibility work together.

We can examine your life for indulgence by reflecting on the what brings us joy. A lot of insight can be discovered under that question.

 

Impurity says, “I MUST hide it” and it kills a leader’s integrity. We all sin and make mistakes, no one is perfect or without blemish. The kind of impurity I’m talking about is a little deeper, more pervasive. 

Impurity is different from the other killers because it can’t be be justified or excused. I can rationalize indulgence as a legitimate need or fear can be seen as a legitimate caution. Loving history too much can be relabeled as “remembering our roots.”

Impurity is different. Impurity is the result of ignoring a sin-awareness. Instead of taking it to the foot of the cross, we brush it under the rug. We run. We hide. We redirect. We masquerade. The impurity lodges deep within our hearts and soon a soul sickness seeps into every area of our lives. Impurity is a conscience act of disobedience, a refusal to repent.

To overcome the other leadership killers, a person may just need some discernment, wisdom, insight… Overcoming impurity always requires courage, humility, and confession. These things are not complicated or difficult to comprehend.

The great simplicity of impurity’s antidote is equaled by the great devastation it’s poison creates in our lives. Nothing kills our leadership like impurity. It infects our most important relationship, and stands as a stain between us and God.

God is looking for people with pure hearts. It is our first step, and it is fundamental because we must choose this every day. Start with the impurity killer, and keep a tireless watch. Then look to interrupt the other leadership killers in your life with God’s inspiration.

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